What's the true meaning of relationships?
Friday, January 28, 2005
suddenly thought of boy-girl relationships. i felt people are still very imatured in doing things. i felt that a relationship is a mutual commitment. and sometimes i asked my friends ,"when you're having a relationship, have you thought about the future?" many will reply that they never thought of anything. i don't understand why they didn't thought of that.. i thought future is very important? there's isn't a mutual goal to work with. many people just live for today... Bible is really true la.. it says without a vision, people perish. i felt that same goes for relationships. without a vision, a future to work with, the relationship will not last long.
maybe some want to have a relationship because they want an experience, a nice memory together and never thought much about the future. maybe some did, i don't know..
besides that, sometimes i find that i have come across many peole who has relationships, and sometimes what they did sometimes kinda childish (sorry for being a bit too straight forward). i don't know what's the reason for that. i think maybe i'm no position to comment, cos i've never went into relationship before. i don't know what's a relationship like, to be honest. but if that's what a relationship is about, i will think twice to get into one.
i heard many will just quarell with very minor things.. and get really angry over that for a very long time. i felt that many times these quarells are not necessary at all, if people are muture enough to deal with the problem. sometimes i was wondering why people still want to continue a relationship if they know that there isn't a future (that you know that you'll definately break off anytime, depends on the time). maybe they find it a joy to quarell with their partner ba.. or maybe many find themselves too comfortable or to get used to the relationship, or maybe some felt that they want to continue in the hope of changing their partner in the process, or maybe some choose to continue cos they feel that they can't let go this relationship, cos he/she really love their partner soooo much. to me, that's not love, that's lust.
i don't know why i suddenly want to write all this. i really seen alot of examples, 2 imatured people get together. in the start, everyday is full of joy. but as time goes by, they start to quarell over many things and in the end broke up. both of them felt so bitter in them for a very long time.
i don't see a point here at all.
but of course i also seen many couples in my church. they get together, serve God together, there are many times they also quarelled, but everything turn out well for them.
anyway, to me, God will always be my first pirority. No matter what decision i make, God will always be the most important One i'll thought of. i will not do anything that will affect my relationship with God.
&lovin' Bb at 11:07 AM♥
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